Anonymous:
Here's something of a problem for me that I'd like advice on: I'm best friends with a girl, she and I are incredibly close and have had sex and a pseudo on-off relationship, at this point we've positioned ourselves as close friends and nothing more, we plan on visiting each other over the course of this summer and continuing a strong friendship, I'm still infatuated with her and am having trouble with my feelings, I'm coming to terms with it but it's rough, have any comments or adivce?
Here's something of a problem for me that I'd like advice on: I'm best friends with a girl, she and I are incredibly close and have had sex and a pseudo on-off relationship, at this point we've positioned ourselves as close friends and nothing more, we plan on visiting each other over the course of this summer and continuing a strong friendship, I'm still infatuated with her and am having trouble with my feelings, I'm coming to terms with it but it's rough, have any comments or adivce?
Well it doesn’t seem like you are having trouble with your feelings; you know you are infatuated with her, i think you should try think positively on it, enjoy it, perhaps hint about the attraction you have and see where it goes from there? You never know she might feel the same? or as often happens, once your friendship grows you may prefer to stay close friends and be happy of it later on, try not to worry about it and just be light hearted, the more pressure you put on things like this the more you waste time worrying and less time having fun? you know? xx
